Gary Wayne Behrman – Olathe, Kansas

Gary Behrman, is a white male who lives in Olathe, Kansas and works at a shingle supply company in Merriam lists himself on POF.com as a dad of two girls and one son. His profile talks about his honesty, his desire to actively find a nice woman for a long term relationship, what a romantic gentleman he is, and even asks that no one play games with him. His pictures all feature him with his kids, which adds to the innocent feel of his profile. Gary contacted me the fist week I joined POF. His message was very sweet and prompted me to look at his profile. Like many attractive women on these sites, I received hundreds of messages in a short time, but Gary seemed very sincere and we started messaging on a regular basis. He was never inappropriate and was very patient as I spent over two months just talking on the site before finally giving him my number, after which we talked and texted daily. I lived two hours from Gary and about three weeks after getting my number he asked if it would be ok if he drove down to see me, to me this was another indication of his sincerity. When I said it was such a long way to come for a woman he’d never met, he said he’d go ten times that far because he had a huge crush on me and wanted a chance to be the man in my life. When we met there was an instant connection, probably helped by the months spent getting to know him. He had gotten a room at the most expensive hotel in town so he could see me again the next day. He was sweet, shy, respectful, and I was hooked. We decided we wanted to see each other exclusively before he left and he invited me to travel to his town the following weekend and stay at his place. Every night he called and talked about how much he liked me, and how “smitten” he was. I traveled to see him as we had agreed, and we became lovers despite me feeling it was too soon. He introduced me to his son, telling me he had never done that before and that he also had never asked a woman to his home before. When it came time for me to go home he pleaded with me to stay and find work in his area so we could be together. I told Gary this was all too fast, but he convinced me it was what he wanted, and sadly, I bit. That Monday I went on POF to update and hide my profile. While doing this I noticed Gary was also on. I assumed he was doing the same as I, so said nothing when he got home. Over the week I noticed things about Gary that were concerning. The displays of affection and gentleman like behavior had disappeared. He had told me he hadn’t dated in years, but one night he received a text from a woman and admitted he had seen her for about a week before me and had been in a sexual relationship. He also said he had simply stopped talking to her with no explanation. Over time he admitted to having had many similar brief relationships through POF, but I was different, he claimed. I was concerned after hearing the truth that the man was not what he had presented and went on POF to make sure his profile was hidden. Not only was it not, he was online again. I said nothing and continued to monitor over the next week. He was on here and there throughout the day, usually within an hour of leaving me in bed to go to work. When I finally asked him about it he claimed the site was blocked at work and so it must be a glitch. I began noticing this “glitch” did not happen when he was with me, only when he was at work. I again told Gary his profile showed him as being online and perhaps he should at least hide it as I had done. He said he would do that the next day “from work!”. I didn’t point out he had told me he couldn’t get on there; it was just one more lie to add to the mounting lies. Gary began going outside when he received phone calls, and suddenly kept his phone locked or in his pocket at all times. My fears that I was being lied to and used became too much for me to take. One day about an hour after he left for work I checked POF and say that he was on. I quickly created a profile using my little sisters pictures and sent him a brief message simply saying I like his profile. I waited, hoping there would be no response, but within a couple hours he replied he’d be interested in getting to know me. After a couple messages he suggested meeting, and it was then I revealed it was me. When he got home he admitted he had been on all the times I’d caught him, he had become addicted, but this was the first time he had talked to anyone. He asked my forgiveness and said he would delete his profile if I gave him another chance because he didn’t want to lose me. I agreed but told him he would need to earn my trust again after so many lies. I told him I was going to go home and would be back the following weekend. I called when I got there to let him know I’d arrived safe and he thanked me for giving him another chance. I checked POF hoping he would have deleted his account and I couldn’t find him, but his messages in my inbox were also gone. My sister got on her account and found him. He was online and had deleted me. I played dumb and messaged him, and received no response. I haven’t heard from the jerk since, though he is rarely off the site as he lines up his next victims.

Melinada Degraw — Kansas City, Kansas

Melinada Degraw — Kansas City, Kansas

First off I think she hacked my FB account because I can’t get into it and then my phone got shut off. Y’all don’t know but this woman is married with 3 kids and doesn’t have an ounce of respect in her. She cheated on her husband this year with my bf. I know because I was there when they was doing it. I gave him permission. Once I found out she was married I got pissed off about it. She came over to the house a few different times to have sex with him while she left her husband and kids at home I’m sure. Way to go Mom. Someone needs to tell her husband because I’m sure he has no idea what happened and he needs to know the truth. I hope he kicks her ass out on the curb where she belongs. Sending my bf pictures of herself in bra, panties. She is dirty and needs a reality check because she has no respect for anyone in her life to include herself.

Betty McMiller — Wichita, Kansas

Betty McMiller — Wichita, Kansas

So I see a weird number in my husband’s phone, called it and it was this HOMEWRECKER, Betty McMiller. Asked her who she was and she said she didn’t know my husband, sounded believable so I gave her the benefit of the doubt but ended the phone call telling her IF there was something more to it that she needs to keep in mind he is married with 3 kids. Found out 3 months later they had been sleeping together the whole time and she knew about me. I found messages in his phone of her talking bad about me, asking him to divorce me and that she would help him take my kids and move somewhere new. When I confronted her the second time she laughed and thought it was funny and told me she knew about me the whole time and didn’t care. I dont put all the blame on her cuz its his fault too, but she knew so she is equally at fault. Then she had the nerve to discuss trying to take my kids from me when she doesnt even have her own. She aint nothing but an alcoholic who likes to sleep with married men because she cant get her own.

Shanae Satter — Topeka, Kansas

Shanae Satter — Topeka, Kansas

My spouse and also I were having difficulty in our marital relationship a few months back and also this house damageding female determined to swoop in as well as rescue him … I’m presuming she assumed she can comfort him and also they can contrast sob tales concerning just how they have actually been done so terribly in previous connections all while intending to obtain a partnership with a person that was currently taken … When I discovered obviously he asserted it got along as well as absolutely nothing even more … I made a decision to send her a message and also see if she would certainly come tidy as well as be sincere however obviously she decided to exist and also definitely has no embarassment doing just what she does. My instinct informed me to inspect phone documents and also you’ll never ever presume exactly what I located there mored than a thousand messages in between both over simply a pair days. This lady recognized he was wed and also made a decision to relocate in on him while he was susceptible. On social media sites she’s constantly asking why she can not discover love as well as possibly it’s due to the fact that she’s searching in all the incorrect areas and bc you can not transform a Ho right into a homemaker. So because she has no pity I determined to blast her on below for the entire globe to see as well as possibly she will certainly make even more of an initiative to keep away from family men … That’s possibly hopeful reasoning on my component create these ladies uncommitted they simply desire someone/anyone to enjoy them …

Alana Hunt — Hutchinson, Kansas

Alana Hunt — Hutchinson, Kansas

This young lady (I say that word loosely because ladies don’t act like this) is one of Hutch’s finest *cough cough*…whore, homewrecker and junky. This chick tried to move in on my fiance and I’s relationship last year, nothing major came of it…then in June my fiance starts acting distant, coming home from work later, no interest in family time with the kids, covering his phone when he texts…just totally not like him. So I knew something was up and I did some snooping. Come to find out my now ex has been screwing her for the last month but WAIT it gets better! Miss Alana had a baby a couple years ago with the “love of her life”, baby got taken away because she is a junkie and went to prison. Fast forward – she supposedly was with that same man about a year ago and gets pregnant again. Fast forward a little more – baby comes out a different fuckinnnng race. That papi was probably married too! The “love of her life” stuck by her side although he IS NOT the father (JERRY, JERRY, JERRY!) and he goes to jail…so now she gets a boyfriend (who was taken when they met) and still insists on pursuing my man! She acts like the victim though…of course! Ladies!!! If you know this whore of a girl, keep your fellas away from her! She gets off on trying to ruin families, relationships, marriages, etc…She is a wrecker of all things. Now my fiance isn’t innocent in any of this but this bitch kept throwing herself at him and eventually if you keep seeing donuts you gonnnnna eat one! (Bad analogy or whatever ehhh I’m gonna go eat a donut now).

Ashley Richardson — Wichita, Kansas

Ashley Richardson — Wichita, Kansas

So she is in a relationship, just had a baby with the guy yet she is constantly popping up in my husband’s inbox with this sh*t. We don’t even live in fucking Kansas anymore. We aren’t moving back. Bitch needs to stop being so obsessed with my husband who doesn’t even want her. You were just a sex bag while we were separated Ashley, how about focus on your boyfriend who loves you. Although he doesn’t deserve your nasty ass. I sent him the screenshots too.